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Invite a co-parent, grandparent, relative, or helper

Owners invite adults from Settings › Adults: email for full access, a one-tap link for everyone else. Pick the smallest role that works.

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Invite a co-parent, grandparent, relative, or helper

Goal: add another adult to the family with the right role. Only the account owner can do this, and only after confirming their email.

Steps#

  1. Go to Settings › Adults, or open Setup › Adults during onboarding.
  2. Under Invite someone, choose Who they are: Parent / guardian, Partner, Grandparent, Relative, Friend, Helper, or Other. For Other, type What to call them.
  3. Choose What they can do:
    • Full access for a co-parent. Everything you can do except inviting adults and privacy settings.
    • Day-to-day for a grandparent, relative, friend, or helper who runs part of the day. Today, logging, and the playbook.
    • Highlights for grandparents and distant family. A weekly highlights link and stories only.
  4. For Full access, type an Email and tap Send invite. The person receives a sign-in link.
  5. For Day-to-day or Highlights, leave Simple phone ticked for anyone who wants a simpler phone (bigger text, low-data images, voice-to-text on their device) and tap Create invite link. Copy the link and send it by any messaging app. The person taps it, types a name if they wish, and is signed in on that device for 90 days.

Afterwards#

  • Pending invites lists each invite with its role and expiry. Tap Revoke to cancel one.
  • Once someone has joined, edit their Display name, Who they are, Color, and, as owner, What they can do. Deactivate removes them and signs their devices out.
  • The What they can do table on the same page shows the capability matrix.

Variations#

  • A grandparent who lives with you and runs part of the day should be Day-to-day, not Highlights.
  • A Day-to-day adult who wants to sign in by email on a second device needs an email invite; ask the owner to create a new invite with an email.

FAQ

Why is the invite button missing?

Only the account owner can invite, and only after confirming their own email. Open the confirmation email, or tap Resend link in the banner at the top of the app.

How long does an invite last?

Fourteen days. Revoke it from Pending invites if it should stop working earlier.